Remember, the first one is the practice one. It’s worth your effort because it is delicious. Kind of like potato chips, you can’t eat just one!
If the cornbread comes all apart when gently putting it in the oil, that means the batter is too thin, so add a little more cornmeal. If it will not spread out, that means the batter needs more water. The cornbread should be very thin and flat with little round holes in it.